Becoming Men of Values

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SERIES:  Family Values Under Construction

TITLE:  Becoming Men of Values

TEXT:   I Tim.3:1-7 (p.992)

 

I. THE SWORDS WE WIELD

 

“Every man has a battle to fight; an adventure to live; and a beauty to rescue.”  John Eldredge in Wild at Heart

  • Men who will live with (passion)
  • Men who will live by (faith).
  • Men who will not accept the (status quo) about women.

There is a question that haunts every man: (Do I have what it takes?)

Two swords of value for every man:

  1. The silver-handled sword is a man’s (positional power).
  2. The gold-handled sword is a man’s (personal power).

 

II. THE SPECIFICS WE HOLD

 

“A man has total control over his household and a good wife will obey him, as will the children.”   Say what?

Eph.5:21: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”

Key thoughts from I Timothy 3;

  1. Above (reproach).  Means “not able to be held.”
  2. Husband of one wife.  Phrase literally means “one woman man.”
  3. Sober-minded.  “temperate” Means having (clarity of mind)
  4. Self-controlled.  “Prudent”
  5. Respectable.  “to be well-ordered and balanced” and came to mean “well-mannered and honorable.
  6. Hospitable. “to love strangers”
  7. Able to teach.  We need to “man up” in this area.
  8. Some negatives to avoid.

“For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to give strong support to those whose heart is blameless toward Him.”  2 Chron.16:9

 

NEXT WEEK:   Sermon Series: Family Values Under Construction

Sermon: Becoming Women of Values- Prov.31:10-31

 

 

 

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